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Hey! Im Ashley and I live in the Washington area. God has blessed me with three beautiful children. One of my children has a rare form of dwarfism. We are still waiting on a dignosis, which can take up to a year. So while i patiently wait ive been doing a TON of research on could it be this or oh what if she has that...I have this blog to have others find me and as well helping others who may be experiencing the same issue's or have already been there. Enjoy to read or even chat & of course enjoy our wonderful journey that God has planed for us :D

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

About Tubie Friends

About Us Tubie Friends a non-profit group that is administered by two mothers whose children have feeding tubes and want to use their experience to make life easier for the thousands of children relying on feeding tubes for their nutrition. Tubie Friend Surgeons (TFS) are volunteers who care for or love tube feeders and donate their time and resources. Many of us are still in the trenches with you, which means that sometimes our kids have surgeries, procedures, tests, or hospital stays that takes our time away from Tubie Friends applications and processing. Our administrators monitor the e-mail account and websites. Co-Founders Our children's Tubie Friends have been a teaching tool for family, friends, school nurses and caregivers as well as something that has provided comfort for our children. When our sons met for the first time, they instantly bonded and told "war" stories about all the medical interventions they have undergone. It was an amazing thing to see our boys brag about their feeding tubes rather than feel isolated. Unfortunately we live in different states, but when they are apart each has their own Tubie Friend to provide comfort and friendship. Cheryl When we found out Brayden needed a feeding tube, I was blessed with friends who had already mastered the art of tube feeding. They encouraged us to create a Tubie Friend to help teach him what about the feeding tube so the process would not be as scary. He and his monkey "Sam" became instant friends. He immediately gave Sam medications and becoming an expert at connecting the extension prior to surgery. I believe it helped our entire family be more prepared for our new life as a tubie family. Unfortunately my son's Mitochondrial Disease has caused us to spend more and more time in the hospital. Over the years Sam has continued to have many surgeries to change to a GJ tube, add a PICC line and now a Broviac for TPN in addition to his tube feeds. Brayden is now 7 and still holds Sam tight anytime he is scared about a medical procedure. I have a full time paying job in Human Resources and spend a lot of time taking care of my son's medical needs. However Tubie Friends provides a great distraction and helps me feel good that we can take what we are learning with my son's journey and help smooth the way for families that follow in our footsteps. Shannon Tubie Friends is my habit, hobby & labor of love. When I'm not working on Tubie Friends, I teach 6th grade students and invite them to join us in helping others. I also serve on the board for the Seafair Pirate Charity Foundation as Director of Tubie Friends. My son, Caleb, is almost 7 years old and currently receives most of his nutrition through his GJ tube. He was a toddler when he got his feeding tube and we had no connection to any kind of support group. Our family helped where they could, but we had no one who could walk us through the process. The idea to make his first Tubie Friend was more to help his older sister, who wanted to mother him and feed him, than it was to help Caleb. Immediately after making a Tubie Friend for both kids, we were pleased to see that he finally began to accept tube feeding without the tears and battles and his sister was content to just feed her Tubie Friend. Over the years, when he has changed to different types of tubes, we have made new Tubie Friends to familiarize him with what the new tube will look like before it is placed in his body. We have also used it as a teaching tool for school nurses and caregivers as well as sharing it with the kids in his class to satisfy their curiosity. My hope is that no family will go through this without the support of others who know what it is like and without the love of a Tubie Friend.

5 Month Photo Shoot

Guess Who's 5 Months!

RILEY IS!!!! Cant believe she is 5months now! My little worm is growing! Update on her Gtube. We are home now finally after spending 7 days in the hospital. Just took her some time to recover. She isn't gagging anymore or having any reflux issues YAY!!! I say that now and watch next week it comes back. hope not lol. She is also tolerating her feeds quite well :) Theres a website called Tubiefriends.com and you can order a build a bear and they put trachs or Gtubes in whatever kind your kid has and its free all you pay is the shipping! which is only 8bucks but even that if you cant pay for the shipping they will for you. So i got one for the kids because i know they will interested on how there little sis eats now. Then when Riley gets bigger she will be able to play with her Gtube bear too :) I signed up for early intervention, that helps with kids with special needs! They have PT, OT, and Speech come to your house and work on therapy sessions. It will also help with SSI they said. So im excited to start that. Everything with lil missy and going great. I see her pcp next month for a 6motnh check up and shots :( and re due of a sleep study to see if she needs her NP tube anymore. I also think she will be ready for her infant car seat now. No more car bed which I hope!!! Maddie and caleb start school in a few weeks. Cant wait for that :)They both are excited to get back in school mood. :D Oh and im going to be a auntie :) Found out what she is having today but cant say bc she wants to surprise everyone with cupcakes and the middle of them they are going to reveal what it is :D alright her are some pics from her gtube surgery and 5month :)Love you all have a good afternoon!

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Bye Bye NG Tube! Hello Gtube!

Went in for Riley's Gtube surgery Thursday. Everything went well until they took her breathing tube out and gave her some Fentanyl. She was really working herself to breath. So they gave her some Narcan that refursed the narco and she finally woke up and started to act like her self. So they sent her over to the PICU over night just to keep a eye on her. Around midnight she started breathing harder and seemed like she was in alot of pain. They were only giving her tyalnol around the clock because they didnt want to give her morphine and have her start breathing weird. So they gave her a little bit at a time and she did very well with it but still was working herself to breath. They then put her on 8L of oxygen and 100% high flow. Since she was working so hard to breath she started gitting alot of secrections. So then we had to suction every hour seemed like. They then noticed that she looked like she was coming down with a cold. That seemed to make since, since i was coming down with one as well. So they took a siliva test and we should know Monday what it is so we can start treatment. So today (Sunday) She looks a like a whole different baby! She is finally herself. more awake, and aware of things, not breathing so hard anymore. She is also down to 3L of O2 and no more high flow. They started her feeds with 15ML every hour and going to increase it every hour now. So tomorrow we should be out of the picu and into a regular room :D Photos To come!!! XOXO Love you all

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Update!

So Miss Riley is now at 12lbs and 2oz and 22in long. She is still not taking anything by mouth. Her reflux has been getting a little better though. She is now able to put fingers and pacie in her mouth with out gagging all the time. I went to her feeding clinic for a update and they want me to dip her pacie in her formula three times a day to get her started on oral feeds. She will be getting her Gtube placed August 16th 2012. This will be her first surgery. They are a little concerned about her breathing but they said everything should be just fine. We are expected to be in the hospital for a couple of days. Had a follow up apt with her ENT doctor and they want to redo another sleep study to see how she does with out her NP tube placed. Now a days Ive been leaving it out all day except when she is in the car or sleeping. During the day when she is asleep i leave it out, and her stats have been staying at 98-100. Ive noticed when it is in though she has been gagging ALOT, then she has a hard time throwing up then her stats lower. Im curious to see what the sleep study says. Ortho- Wants to see her again in a few months. Give her time to grow, ect. Nothing new there. I do though want to get a second opinion on her spine and neck though. Because something tells me we need too.... Anyway besides that we are all doing well! Love you all! Xoxo

About Help to promote awareness of PIERRE ROBIN SEQUENCE!

To make people more aware of this rare sequence of event's Pierre Robin is a sequence of event's resulting in life threatening breathing and feeding problem's. The sequence consists of a large u-shaped cleft pallet, a small jaw which means that the tongue fall's back blocking the airway. Baby's with PRS always require surgery to close their pallet and sometimes to bring jaw forward. Nearly all have feeding difficulties and have to be tube fed or with special squeezy bottle's as they have no suction! Often the child requires help with speech as they get older, due to having a cleft pallet! Midwives sometimes miss PRS straight after birth leaving baby unable to breath and having to be ventilated. We need to make people more aware as it is rare but does happen! PLEASE JOIN THE CAUSE. 1. 1 in 30'000 baby's are born with some type of PRS 2. Alway's needing surgery to close their pallet

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Love This!

I Have a Special Needs Child Welcome to Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley By: An EP User Written on March 13th, 2009 When you are going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make all your wonderful plans: the Coliseum, Michelangelo's David, the gondolas in Venice. You may even learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting. After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland." "Holland ?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy" But there has been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay. The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place. So you go out and buy new guide books. And you learn a whole new language. And you meet a whole group of people you would never have met. It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there awhile and you catch your breath, you look around and begin to notice Holland has windmills- and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts. But everyone one you know is busy coming and going from Italy...and they are all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say, "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned." And the pain of that will never, ever go away, because the loss of that dream is a very significant loss. But if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, and very lovely things about Holland.

Monday, July 23, 2012

Ohhh Riley :D

Came home from my first night at work. Prepped Rileys bottle as i went into her room to set up the feeding tube this is what i saw. She flipped her self up side down in her bed lol haha she scared the crap outta me lol